When are we going to get some good news? I am really getting frustrated and I just want my baby healed! I do not like this feeling of helplessness. As a mother, I feel it is my responsibility to protect my children. And now, I have let Kyara down twice. First when she drank the chemical, and now with this surgery. Kyara, I am so sorry!
Obviously, things are not going very smooth. When the doctors scoped Kyara, they found an open esophagus (good), and a very pink stomach (again good), but a HUGE leak. The leak is almost 1/2 the size of the esophagus. The doctor put a tube from her mouth, through the leak, into her chest cavity to drain the fluid that has been escaping. He also put a tube from her nose into her stomach to drain her stomach of fluids. She will stay intubated (breathing tube) for about a week. The doctors are planning on leaving the tube that is draining the chest cavity though the leak until it heals. We will stay in the hospital until it heals. They are guessing that the leak will close in 4-6 weeks. So, we will definitely be here for Thanksgiving, probably for Christmas, and I hope we will be home before the New Year. Once the leak is sealed, I am told that she will do great. It is just a waiting game and managing problems as they arise. I am having a hard time being patient.
19 comments:
Genie, I don't know what to say....hang in there... Kyara WILL BE OKAY and will heel very well after all of this is over. Have faith... She's got your genes... she will heel sooner than you expect. Lots of love from Miami.
I'm so sorry that Kyara has had a setback. We are still praying for her and will continue to every day. Shanna says, "I feel so bad for Kyara." Kristen says"I can't wait till you come home and that i hope you get some good news soon." Austin says, "I miss you" I know it is hard to find the positives at a time like this, but I know you have such a great family of support...you will all get through this!
Love, the Lopers
I really do not know what to say, can not find words to mention all my feelings, only hope that today is one of those days that are sad, but my heart says, tomorrow will be better, she will make it and will be strong girl.
Love
Genie and Gunars
Have Faith and doubt not; our little Kyara will be heeled soon. Genie stay positive and take care of yourself!!I know this must be hard but please know that you are doing what is best for Kyara! She is a very strong little sweetie pie whom we all love and once she gets over the humps she will be fine. Before long all you guys will be back in Sharpsburg as a family!! Keep the FAITH!!!
Love to all
Nurse Misty
Genie,
You have not let anyone down! Especially Kyara. You decided that you did not want her going through what she had been, and made the best decision for her future! This operation was a very delicate one, and there will be ups and downs. Please do not second guess your decision. Everyone is praying for you, Kyara, Gunnars, Skylar and Kassey. Your family's dedication to one another is to be admired. I realize it is hard, but hang in there - the rewards are coming!
Love y'all,
Ms. Michelle and all my family
Please know we are all praying for you and for renewed strength and healing. I know this is the hardest thing you have ever done, but remember you can do anything through Christ who gives you strength!!
Genie, You are doing a great job. Don't ever second guess what has happened that is in the past. You must move forward and take care of your family. Kyara needs you alot right now and you are doing what you need to do for her and that is being there beside her. She knows you are there. You hang in there. We are all praying for Kyara and the rest of your family to help her get through all the rough spots. Remember what the doctors said about putting out the fires and this is just another one to take care of. You are a great Mom to do what you are doing and also taking care of Kassey and then being there for Gunars and Skylar. Keep up the good work and continuing to keep us informed of our strong little girl. Just know that we are all behind you and that you CAN do this for you, for Kyara and for the rest of your family.
We Love you!
Mrs. Laurie and Mrs. Carlisle
Genie, knowing you from playing soccer, you are very physically tough..I have no doubt, that has been passed on to your daughter! She will overcome this and so will you. You and your family are in my prayers. "The will of God will never place you where the grace of God can't help you." You are a wonderful mother, try to get some rest.
Genie, you are doing a great job. Mothers and fathers try to make all things possible for their children. You and Gunars are doing just that for Kyara. Before too long this will be just a memory and you will have a healthy, happy Kyara to love every day and she will be able to eat ANYTHING she wants. Keep your eye on the goal! We love you and we are so proud of you and your strength!
Mom and Dad
Dzenis gang...we are in it with you. Sorry that you guys had crummy news today. We wish that we were there at the RM house to chat with you about the day. Praying for ya!
Cristen Schmalz
Just remember that when one door closes GOD opens another one. This too shall pass. God will get Kyara through this and bring her out even stronger than before. Fully rely on GOD and He will bring you through this difficult time. We are praying for you and Kyara and the rest of your family. Creighton says, "I miss Kyara. She's one of my girlfrineds." He prays for her every night before he goes to sleep. As my mom and dad always told me...Keep your chin up...all will be ok in GOD's time.
lots of love from the Smith family
Hey guys,
You are incredible parents and Kyara is lucky to have you guys. Keep your heads up. She will make it through this...Love the pics of Kyara chomping the UM sign.
Genie,
My heart and prayers go out to you and your family. She is a strong little girl. I am so sorry that you guys are going through all this. There just really are no words....but know that I am thinking of you and praying!
Genie,
As hard as it is, stay positive. You haven't let Kyara down but you have been there for her every step of the way. You and Gunners are the example I hope to replicate when I become a father because yall have done such a great job. I look up to both of you for your strength and just the goodness you both posess. Better days are on the horizon, and then do what Pumba from the Lion King says, Put the behind in your pants! Two tough mothas are doing a great job and all your tough motha maniacs(your fan club) are cheering the job your doing.
Matty
I am so sorry you are having to go through this...even though this is a rough surgery, everyone's hope is that she will be able to have a normal life someday...and eat like normal children. I know it is so hard to see her like this, but just know that you have done all the right things for her and as her mother, you have NEVER let her down. We are all praying for you all...
it's always darkest before the dawn....things will get better. I know that none of us can honestly say we know what you are going through, but I think we all feel it on some level.. my heart hurts for your whole family. I can't explain why we are put to the test in life...but how you respond tells volumes of what type of person you are. And Genie...you Gunars, Skylar, your mom and dad are such an inspiration. Instead of taking a situation that could have torn some people apart...you have managed to grow closer and stronger as a family. I so admire you and Gun as parents and as husband and wife. I look at your relationship with Gun and the girls and really strive to be like you. Strong, supportive, respectful, smart, while still balancing fun and joy and so much love. The love and support shown by everyone for your family truelly exemplies the real meaning of the holiday season...and I am grateful to be a part of your lives! We love you!!
Heather and Jimbo
Please know that people all over the country are praying for you, Kyara, your family, and your doctors and nurses. May the peace of God wash over you during this very difficult period. Take a deep breath and keep on praying and we all will too.
We wanted to let you know we are thinking about you Kyara.
Remember,Genie you are a good mother and you need to take care of yourself and stay strong for Kyara!Please let us know if there is anything we can do!You are all in our prayers!
Love,
CHOA Day Surgery Nurses
Genie, you are a wonderful mother!!! Kyara is on her way to being healed and you are doing a wonderful job. Please do not forget that with God ALL things are possible. Lots of Love
Lana, Russell, Caitlin, Savannah and Alexander
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