This spring has been full of life. Mostly its good, sometimes its… not as
good. Its life.
I finished my first semester of student teaching. While it was difficult to leave Kassey, not
be home when Skylar was done with school, and to juggle schedules in ensure
everyone got to their activities, I must admit I really enjoyed being at the
school. The students were fun and the teachers I worked with were extremely positive. It was nice to have something that was "mine." Of course, by the time I only had 1-2 weeks
left, I was counting down the days to get back to being “mom” again.
I also have a greater appreciation for my friends who are
working mothers. I am not sure how you
guys do it!! Laundry, cleaning, dinner,
chauffering from one thing to the next, all while working long hours out of the
house! Amazing. I can truthfully tell you, I can count on one
hand the number of nights I actually cooked at home while working. They all happened the first week, before
soccer started! After soccer, I was
lucky to get a PB&J made before we were heading out the door on the way to
the fields!
This spring we marked Kyara’s 2nd Heavenly
Birthday. I am finding that I am missing
her so much more now than I did last year.
Instead of getting more peace, I am more and more unsettled by her
absence. I can feel myself withdrawal from
my family and at times I wind up in a hole of emptiness, sadness, and longing
for her. It is extremely difficult to
get out of these funks and I know my attitude affects my entire household. I am not sure how to describe the pain that
accompanies these harder times. It like
the air has been removed and each time I try to take a breath, my chest and
throat get tighter and tighter. I have
heard the saying about an elephant sitting on your chest, well, I think the
elephant is squashing me sometimes!
“You saw me before I was born.
Everyday of my life was recorded in your book.
Every moment was laid out
before a single day had passed.”
-
Psalm 139:16
Being reminded of God's love and
that He knew the plans He had for Kyara before she was ever born
is relief. I know we have free will, but God knew the ending before the beginning was set in motion. As parents we are given
these precious blessings to love, comfort, teach, and then love some more. They are a gift to us from our loving
Father. He doesn’t promise us a certain
amount of time with them, just asks us to love them and raise them to be His
children while they are in our care for His perfect timing. But as the human mom that I am, I can’t help
but question His timing. This certainly
was NOT my timing. Kyara was suppose to
grow older, graduate from high school and college, get married, have a family,
have adventures… lose her first tooth.
The little things we take for granted.
And I can’t help but wonder “WHY?”…
I still don't know, nor do I think I will ever know the answer to why, but I am looking for how I can take the pain, the experience and make it an opprotunity for growth and development. Somedays, some weeks, I seem to be on a better track than others. One thing I have been struck by is the love others poured out on our family duing our heartache. Others were there asking how they could serve us.
"As each has received a gift, use it to serve one another, as good stewards of God's varied grace."
- 1 Peter 4:10
This summer, Skylar and I are embarking on a new adventure. I had written in the past that missionary work was something that had been placed on my heart, and I wasn't sure how or when, but it was somthing I wanted to seek out. Well, our church is going on a mission trip to Belize and Skylar and I are going with them. This trip is really special to me for several reasons. It is the first one I have been on, Skylar will be going with me, and it is focused on children in a extremely poverty striken part of the country. We will visit orphanages, do a Vacation Bible School, provide dental hygene and cardiovascular information, and even do a sports ministry. I am thrilled to be a part of this amazing opprotunity to serve others. I am also scared to death by this! I am absolutely going outside my comfort zone. I am not the most outgoing person, and I don't share well with others (although I have tried to be open on here. For some crazy reason writing my thoughts and putting them on the web for anyone to read seems safer than speaking to a group of people!) I hear people say all the time that by going on a mission trip where you are serving others, many times, YOU are the one changed. I am praying to keep an open heart and an open mind on this trip.
We ask that you pray for our mission team as we embark on this journey. We are currently raising money for the trip and for supplies for our missions. We were able to save about $2000 on airfare which freed up funds to supply construction supplies for the community to build a preschool. Amazing how God goes before us to prepare the way! We appreciate your prayers as we are getting ready for this amazing journey. If you would like to make a financial contribution checks can be sent to:
Fayetteville First United Methodist Church
175 E. Lanier Avenue
Fayetteville, GA 30214-1659
Please include Belize Mission trip and Skylar and/or Genie Dzenis in the memo line.
We are also sponsoring a Golf Tournament at Whitewater Country Club. Those of you golfers in town, please consider playing in this tournament. We are also looking for hole sponsors and tournament sponsors. For more information or to register to play online go to: http://www.fayettevillefirst.com/index.php
Kyara's Park in Griffin is well on its way. The community has really embraced the center and although it is not completely finished yet, it is moving forward. We are excited about this work! I will post pictures soon!
Some recent pictures of our fun this spring:
We ask that you pray for our mission team as we embark on this journey. We are currently raising money for the trip and for supplies for our missions. We were able to save about $2000 on airfare which freed up funds to supply construction supplies for the community to build a preschool. Amazing how God goes before us to prepare the way! We appreciate your prayers as we are getting ready for this amazing journey. If you would like to make a financial contribution checks can be sent to:
Fayetteville First United Methodist Church
175 E. Lanier Avenue
Fayetteville, GA 30214-1659
Please include Belize Mission trip and Skylar and/or Genie Dzenis in the memo line.
We are also sponsoring a Golf Tournament at Whitewater Country Club. Those of you golfers in town, please consider playing in this tournament. We are also looking for hole sponsors and tournament sponsors. For more information or to register to play online go to: http://www.fayettevillefirst.com/index.php
Kyara's Park in Griffin is well on its way. The community has really embraced the center and although it is not completely finished yet, it is moving forward. We are excited about this work! I will post pictures soon!
Some recent pictures of our fun this spring:
Pettting sharks at the Georgia Aquarium |
Getting Kisses from the some crazy creatures at the Coke Museum |
Kassey's punching gloves were bigger than her! Notice how she can't even stand up straight! |
Skylar and Kassey hamming it up for the camera at the Butterfly Garden at Callaway Gardens. |
Poor girls spend half their time in the car going from one adventure to the next! |
Kassey's 4 year old doctor appointment. This was BEFORE she knew she was going to have 4 shots. She was tough though and barely whimpered after the 4th shot. |
Skylar was Harriet Beecher Stowe at school. She would recite a speech about herself for each group of students that came to her. |
We went to Medeviel Times for Mother's Day. We had a blast until our knight lost his battle! Thank goodness the evil Green Knight didn't win! |
HAPPY EASTER! |